
Work is supposed to support your life—not the other way around.
But too often, we let obligations—both professional and personal—dictate our time in ways that drain us instead of fueling us. That’s where the Magic 4-Square Box of Freedom comes in. It’s not just about managing work responsibilities; it’s about taking an honest look at everything that fills (or depletes) our energy—so we can shift the balance back in our favor.
For a moment, step back and ask yourself:
✔ What lights me up?
✔ What do I have to do?
✔ What do I choose to do?
✔ Where am I spending energy that I don’t need to?
✔ What do I have to do?
✔ What do I choose to do?
✔ Where am I spending energy that I don’t need to?
When your life’s balance is off, joy, creativity, and rest become the first sacrifices. But here’s the thing—you can change the math.
In the full post, I break down exactly how to do this—with a simple tool to help reorganize the way you spend your time, both at work and beyond. Click here to read more and start shifting your time toward the things that actually matter.

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