The Cost of Staying in Survival Mode — Even When You’re Still Functioning

Most physicians don’t describe themselves as “burned out.”

They’re still showing up.
Still making decisions.
Still carrying responsibility.

From the outside, things look fine.

But inside, many notice a quieter shift:
more irritability, less patience, shallower rest, slower emotional recovery.

This is what happens when the body stays in survival mode long after the surge should have ended.

High Functioning Doesn’t Mean Low Cost

Medicine rewards endurance. Many physicians learn early how to override fatigue, delay emotion, and stay focused under pressure.

That ability is real — and it’s useful.

But physiology keeps score.

When stress responses are activated repeatedly without full recovery, the body adapts by staying partially “on.” Over time, this creates cumulative wear and tear across multiple systems.

In medical research, this process has a name: allostatic load.

What Allostatic Load Actually Means

Allostasis refers to the body’s ability to adapt to stress in order to maintain function.
Allostatic load describes what happens when those adaptations are used too often or for too long.

Research on allostatic load shows that chronic activation of stress systems affects:

Sleep regulation
Cardiovascular strain
Immune function
Mood and emotional regulation
Cognitive flexibility and decision-making

Importantly, this isn’t about a single traumatic event. It’s about cumulative exposure — exactly the pattern most physicians experience over years of practice (McEwen, 1998).

You can still be effective while carrying a high allostatic load.
You just pay for it later — often quietly.

Why This Shows Up in January

January is when many physicians first notice the cost.

The holidays may have ended, schedules may normalize, but the nervous system doesn’t automatically reset. Without a clear signal of safety and recovery, stress physiology continues to run in the background.

This is why:

Time off doesn’t feel restorative
Small frustrations feel bigger
Emotional bandwidth feels narrower
Decision fatigue accumulates faster

Nothing is “wrong.”
Your system is doing exactly what it learned to do.

When Work Stress Meets Real Life

What often gets missed in conversations about physician stress is this:
work doesn’t exist in a vacuum.

Medicine may be the primary source of load, but it isn’t the only one. Illness in a family member. A strained relationship. Parenting challenges. Loss. Financial pressure. A single unexpected event.

When a nervous system is already operating near capacity, even ordinary life stressors can feel overwhelming — not because they’re extraordinary, but because there’s no margin left.

This is where things quietly become dangerous.

Not because physicians are weak, but because a system trained to endure has very little room to absorb more.

And when something painful happens, it deserves care and support — not silence, self-blame, or more pressure to push through.

Most people didn’t enter medicine imagining a life where work steadily erodes their ability to show up for the people they care about — or for themselves. When stress at work begins to impair life outside of it, that’s not dedication. That’s a warning signal.

Why Pushing Through Stops Working

Survival mode is efficient — until it isn’t.

Over time, staying in a high-readiness state reduces flexibility. The nervous system becomes less able to shift gears, even when conditions improve.

This is why advice like “take another vacation” or “just set better boundaries” often falls flat. Those strategies assume the nervous system can downshift on command.

For many physicians, it can’t — not without help.

What Actually Lowers the Cost

Reducing allostatic load isn’t about becoming less committed or less driven. It’s about giving the nervous system a chance to complete stress responses and relearn regulation.

This is where focused, physiology-based approaches — including EMDR Intensives — can help. Rather than relying on insight alone, they work directly with the brain and body systems that have been carrying the load.

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References

McEwen BS.
Protective and damaging effects of stress mediators.
New England Journal of Medicine. 1998;338(3):171–179.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9428819/

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