Most people talk about the new year as a reset point — a clean slate, a fresh beginning.
But if you’re a physician, you may be ending this year with the same symptoms you carried into it:
the exhaustion
the restlessness
the inability to truly unwind
the difficulty feeling present
the sense that your body is still on shift
And there’s a specific kind of ache that shows up in late December:
“Why don’t I feel any different?
Why can’t I reset like other people?”
It’s not because you’re doing the new year wrong.
It’s not because you’re unmotivated or ungrateful.
And it’s definitely not because you “should be more resilient.”
It’s because your nervous system doesn’t operate on the calendar.
The New Year Doesn’t Land When You’re in Survival Mode
Your mind knows the year is ending.
Your body doesn’t.
When the nervous system has been in chronic activation — years of training, call schedules, moral injury, constant responsibility — it stops responding to symbolic moments.
A date on the calendar can’t override:
• unprocessed stress
• accumulated grief
• chronic hyperarousal
• the reflex to anticipate crisis
• the guilt that rides on top of all of it
That’s why physicians often say:
“I took time off… and I came back tired.”
“I slept for days… but nothing changed.”
“I can’t feel the reset everyone talks about.”
Because your body isn’t held up by willpower.
It’s held up by biology.
Medicine Teaches You to Push Through — Not Reset
Physicians are experts at compartmentalization:
burying the heartbreak
setting aside the fear
thinking instead of feeling
moving to the next loss without processing the last
This skill keeps hospitals functioning — but it comes at a cost.
Over time, the unprocessed residue piles up in the nervous system.
By December, many physicians are carrying an entire year’s worth of:
micro-traumas
sleep debt
moral injuries
secondary traumatic stress
unseen grief
self-blame
No wonder “resetting” feels impossible.
You’re not starting from zero.
You’re starting from depletion.
Why Your Body Resists Feeling Safe (Even When It Is)
For physicians, “time off” is rarely restorative.
Your body may:
• jump at small sounds
• scan for problems
• feel restless during stillness
• anticipate the next crisis
• brace when the phone buzzes
• feel guilty for not doing more
This is not anxiety.
It’s conditioning.
The nervous system can’t downshift simply because it’s convenient or symbolic.
It downshifts when it completes the stress responses that have been stuck all year.
Which brings us to the method that actually creates internal reset:
EMDR Helps the Body Update the Story
EMDR works not by forcing insight or perspective, but by allowing the nervous system to finish what it never had time to complete:
the tension
the fear
the images
the helplessness
the moments you swallowed in order to function
Here’s what the research shows:
A 2023 Frontiers in Psychology review on healthcare workers found that EMDR reduced hypervigilance and restored emotional presence in as few as four sessions.¹
A ColumbiaDoctors analysis reported 84% remission for single-incident trauma after just three EMDR sessions.²
For physicians, EMDR Intensives make this realistic:
✔️ 3–5 half-day sessions
✔️ confidential
✔️ designed around call schedules
✔️ no insurance trail
✔️ no weekly reactivation
The result?
Your body finally gets the update your mind has known for years:
“The danger is over.
You’re allowed to rest now.”
A Reset That Isn’t Pretend
This year, you don’t need resolutions.
You don’t need motivational slogans.
You don’t need to “try harder.”
You need restoration.
You need space to process what this year demanded from you.
You need a nervous system that isn’t bracing 24/7.
You need presence that doesn’t cost energy.
You need to feel like yourself again.
A true reset doesn’t happen at midnight on December 31.
It happens the moment your body stops carrying what was never meant to be carried alone.
If you’re ready for a new year that feels different — not just looks different on a calendar:
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Citations
- Tarquinio, C. et al. (2023). EMDR for Healthcare Workers: A Systematic Review. Front Psychol, 14, 1168452.
- ColumbiaDoctors. Can You Get Over Trauma with EMDR? (2023).
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